MARSHMALLOW

A species of mallow, Althaea officinalis, that grows in marshy terrain.

A type of confectionery, originally (since Ancient Egyptian times) made from this plant, but now generally made of sugar or corn syrup, gelatin that has been pre-softened in water, gum arabic, flavorings, and sometimes beaten egg whites, all whipped to a spongy consistency.

Someone who is soft and benign.

"He acts like a total badass, but he's really just a marshmallow once you get to know him."

To soften (literally or figuratively)